• Num10ck@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    healthy boundaries are a secret weapon in securing and keeping happy relationships.

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    If you don’t want to handle people at their worst don’t have kids!

    ETA since apparently people have no sense of humor and/or no kids: when you have kids there are lots of times that they are at their worst. It’s part of being baby/toddler/children. When they are tired they can have absolute meltdowns. And you have to deal with them, because they are your children and you as a parent have to teach them how to deal with those emotions.

    So yeah, kids are little sociopaths that are also absolutely lovely. Don’t want to deal with professional liars and manipulators with also zero remorse, don’t have kids.

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        I don’t doubt that, I’m pretty sure you’re old enough that now not even your parents have to deal with you 😝 (Just kidding riding the joke of course, no offense meant)

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    I find that the people who talk the most about toxicity and boundaries are the most toxic people who don’t respect boundaries.

  • solsangraal@lemmy.zip
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    the more time goes by, the less of it i’m willing to compromise putting up with bullshit. every breath you take is one breath closer to your last