On a trip to San Francisco, the quintessential “gay mecca” of the USA I was on a bus making my way over towards Haight area (then planning to go visit Castro street aka the actual gayest part of San Francisco) there were a group of men on the bus going on a bigoted rant specifically about homosexual men ruining the country and going to hell and all that fun stuff on the LGBTQ+ agenda.
Like, I’d expect to hear that kind of stuff in the middle of Oklahoma’s rural hellscape (sans the bus part). But in San Francisco of all places?
people like that are everywhere. they are probably your friends and neighbors.
most of my girlfriends who claim to be liberal progressives were rabidly racist or anti-lgbt. because i was their boyfriend they could ‘tell me how they really felt’ while they lied through their teeth in public to other people. the hypocracy was mind-blowing, but it’s incredibly common for people to do this.
Those people purposefully bait confrontation. They go to where they know they are of the unpopular opinion, and loudly and obnoxiously escalate their bigotry until there’s confrontation.
Test this by calmly approaching them and asking what they feel they will accomplish with this- and see how quickly one of the “onlookers” whips out a recording device.
I think its probably just refusing to be quiet about their opinions. That comes off as being confrontative, simply because they dont self censor themselves around people they know will be upset.
Its simular to here on Lemmy when people get called trolls for stating an unpopular opinion. They just dont self censor.
On a trip to San Francisco, the quintessential “gay mecca” of the USA I was on a bus making my way over towards Haight area (then planning to go visit Castro street aka the actual gayest part of San Francisco) there were a group of men on the bus going on a bigoted rant specifically about homosexual men ruining the country and going to hell and all that fun stuff on the LGBTQ+ agenda.
Like, I’d expect to hear that kind of stuff in the middle of Oklahoma’s rural hellscape (sans the bus part). But in San Francisco of all places?
people like that are everywhere. they are probably your friends and neighbors.
most of my girlfriends who claim to be liberal progressives were rabidly racist or anti-lgbt. because i was their boyfriend they could ‘tell me how they really felt’ while they lied through their teeth in public to other people. the hypocracy was mind-blowing, but it’s incredibly common for people to do this.
Dated a good share of raging liberals and none were racist or anti lgbt. Have you considered maybe you just attract racists and anti lgbt people?
Those people purposefully bait confrontation. They go to where they know they are of the unpopular opinion, and loudly and obnoxiously escalate their bigotry until there’s confrontation.
Test this by calmly approaching them and asking what they feel they will accomplish with this- and see how quickly one of the “onlookers” whips out a recording device.
I think its probably just refusing to be quiet about their opinions. That comes off as being confrontative, simply because they dont self censor themselves around people they know will be upset.
Its simular to here on Lemmy when people get called trolls for stating an unpopular opinion. They just dont self censor.