think it was about using AI to vibe code slop games or using AI assets.

not running an LLM on the device.

Yet you ask that, here, what do you expect?

Not sure how to continue.

If the only consequences of cheating is your emotions and the damages comes from your reaction (don’t necessarily mean violent, I mean like breaking up) then the act itself might not be the bad thing but the way you react.

Life is too short to deny ourself relationships that bring us joy, and how cruel is to expect that from anyone, especially not those whom we love.

You associate the meal to her, if she does something without you, it inherently changes the meal. and now you dont like the new meal.

I associate the meal to the relationship. you get your meals, and her having a snack somewhere else will in no way change the meals that you get with her. And being upset about it is like complaining that your meal in a restaurant is bad because other people also ordered the same.

But meal wise, she did not serve you anything wrong. all that she did is that she served another meal to someone else. You got your meal, exactly as you want to.

Otherwise is like me going to a restaurant and complain that despite my food being excellent, I was upset that the waiter had the audacity to serve someone else the same meal. It was meant only for me, because I am special, and only I get that meal.

A vegetarian would be very mad about being told a lie that the meal they were being served is vegetarian if it actually contained meat, and rightfully so imo.

That would be more like you are vegan and your partner had a steak yesterday by herself without you. IF you expect her to be vegan you might be upset, but she did not force you to eat anything.

It just seems like setting up a rule “You must remain chaste without me” is inherently irrational. and “Only I am the one you are allowed to receive romancing and intimate affection from” is not a good long term plan, given that all relationships (and people) change a grow with time.

i went into details on other aspects of monogamy I find internally unethical. Maybe cheating is bad, but at best it’s a victimless crime, as bad a cheating on a diet. rather than it being published with social isolation.

life it too short to set up relationships based on the denial of feeling for others.

just saying, that if they need to lie to fulfill their needs, then there isn’t a relationship to begin with.

genocide shouldn’t be political, the same way murder isn’t political

this post is antisemantic

Americans are too meek

🤮

it also doesn’t say you aren’t allowed to murder babies, but some basic things are universally evil, like impersonating a rodent

we’re you banned for lying about being a Gerbil?

irl?

did a mod walk to your house and hand you ban papers?

don’t feel like finishing the show now. not even though 🏴‍☠️

Too horny? nymphomania

Too hungry? Obesity

Too sleepy? Narcolepsy

Too greedy?

Those laws can’t stop you from boycotting Israel. the cops won’t force you to buy Sabras hummus.

And if all you do is self admittedly sit in your ass.

“Unless our voices” Use your voice. when was the last time you protested? organized?

I wish I could do something more meaning but I do a lot. if you need me to tell you suggestions on what to do, ask for it.

but don’t cry woe is me. nothing i can do besides keyboarding.

I mentioned somewhere here that I consider putting such expectations on someone unethical. If my partner has an affair they would tell me and I would be happy for her or neutral, but if they were hiding it, and lying then there was no really a relationship to begin with, just a lie that should end sooner than later.

And in another thread, I said that the social punishment for people who cheat is too severe, often being social isolation. For an infraction I would personally consider as bad as cheating on a diet. For something that causes no harm to anyone.