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  • It very much depends on your skin colour. Me, as a white guy in Austria, no, they wouldn’t report me. I’d be very sorry about the mistake and I’d pay for it, and of course it would just be a mistake.

    A friend of mine who’s parents are from Afghanistan, he gets stopped all the time by store detectives, even though he works as a software developer for the same company. He’s never made a scanning mistake, but if he would, there would be no doubt they’d report him. They stop him even though he did nothing suspicious apart from having slightly darker skin and a beard.




  • That’s such a weak chain of reasoning.

    With the same kind of reasoning you could say “The guy was beaten to death for being 65 years old, because if he was 2 years old, he wouldn’t have been room mates with that guy, and then he wouldn’t have asked for a cigarette, and then there wouldn’t have been a fight over that, and then he wouldn’t have been beaten to death”.

    If you say “He was beaten to death for smoking”, then smoking would have to be the main (if not only) reason for that guy to have been beaten to death. Which was clearly not the case.












  • Ah, gotcha.

    Think of everything you like being done to you apart from PIV. Chances are that men like that too when you do it to them.

    A woman being actually active, showing what she wants, using her hands both to touch her partner, but also to show what she likes (e.g. putting her hand onto his hand while he’s doing something she likes and pushing/holding the hand there) is incredibly sexy.

    Being touched/stimulated on everything that counts as erogenous zone is nice.

    Think of anything that counts as foreplay with women. Chances are men like that too.

    To put it differently: Think of having sex, and the only thing your partner does is touch your clit and PIV, no other body contact. There’s a lot missing, isn’t there?

    Communication is really sexy too. If you want something, say so. If you like what’s happening, say so.

    Show that you are alive, in the moment, and there with your partner, not just waiting for the time to tick away while thinking about laundry. (Even if that’s not what you are, that’s what your partner might think you are doing if you minimize reactions and participations, and that’s decidedly not sexy.)

    It’s really not so much about that secret magic technique or something, just about really being present, trying to find out what your partner likes, being happy to participate and experiment.

    That said, look up “frenulum orgasm” if you want to surprise your partner with a secret magic technique that they themselves might not even know. It’s the male equivalent to a clitoral orgasm, and many guys have never heard of it.