• themadcodger@kbin.earth
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    4 days ago

    He’s a narcissist. Of course he’s the best at this and everything else he does. Any evidence to the contrary is division by zero.

    • MothmanDelorian@lemmy.world
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      narcissism is a lack of empathy and conpassion. it is not thinking you are better than others.

      An example of how a narcissist would think would be “I barely know anything about this subject and you know even less than I do so you must be a fucking idiot if you know less than my dumb ass”

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        Lack of empathy is a sign of narcissism sure, but so is a pathological need for praise and to feel superior to others.

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          Yes and that need stems from deep insecurity. Narcissists are insecure, but don’t show it. Their whole superiority act is just that, an act. Very convincing, because it’s what they -want- to be, and when people praise them it’s like a confirmation. They’re addicted to it. That’s why they lash out at anyone who sees through it. When you praise them, they’ll treat you like the best friend/lover they’ve ever had, but once you take away the praise… well they become a nightmare.

          See it like this: nobody who is actually self-confident needs to get a constant stream of praise to be happy.