• Mac@mander.xyz
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    If you’re interested then go ask.
    Don’t try to figure it all out ahead of time.

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      “Hey i think you’re really cool! Want to go [grab a coffee] with me?”

      [Any low stakes public social activity]

      Bonus points if you tailor it to shared interests.

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        she told me she doesn’t want to go outside because men stare at her and it makes her embarrassed

        we both are raised in strict hanafi families

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          Ah then any safe space for her in which you can get to know eachother but gives her an easy exit if she wants.

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    When you are in a circle of friends they will stand slightly closer to you then anyone else and when you talk they seem to pay more attention to what you are saying compared to what the group is discussing.

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    Well she came up to me and hit on me once. Later she signed some paperwork to make me her wife. I’m pretty sure she likes me after all that

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    What’s the context and age? Does she laugh at your jokes more than with other people’s jokes? Really it’s hard to know because you need to first establish the person’s baseline.

    Like for example whoever suggested the hair behind the ear thing, it could be, but it also could be that they do that too often. I’m one of these too oftens for hair behind the ear and I tend to gesture more at my ears too because I can’t always hear perfectly.

    So, yeah there’s a hundred tell tale signs but you first need to have something to compare them to.

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      There sure is no all encompassing, easy answer, but that is a little off. Like telling a color blind person to “just look at the color”.

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      Who passes to the right??? There’s even an instructional song on this