So straight out the gate: I don’t ever really flirt (yes, even if I like the girl). And I’m not sure whether I should change strategies. So hence my question.

Note: I am a guy.

Edit: Thank you all for your input. I have come to the realisation I need to let the other party (better) know I am romantically interested in them. Either by means of flirtation or otherwise.

  • Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.orgEnglish
    7·
    23 days ago

    There’s active flirting, and then there’s unconscious, passive flirting that happens purely out of being genuinely interested in a person.

    I am not a great active flirter, but I do know that my words and body language will do the heavy lifting, unconsciously.

    Perhaps you’re in the same boat?

    • Fat Tony@lemm.eeOP
      2·
      23 days ago

      I am not a great active flirter, but I do know that my words and body language will do the heavy lifting, unconsciously.

      Perhaps you’re in the same boat?

      I would say, yes. However, it has been somewhat of a fruitless endeavour for me. (rightly or wrongly so)