I’m (19F by the way, not like 50) a bad texter. I can be not dry when I want to be, but usually I’m just not up for texting. I really don’t engage with my friends. (I’m asocial).
I don’t participate in their activities. I don’t really ask them how they are, or what their interests are. I don’t even engage in deep discussion with them unless I’m up for it.
When my friend sends a video that reminded her of me or that she finds funny, I don’t click it and just ignore it.
Maybe my friends are growing apart and they text me less because of this, but I’m kind of okay with that because I know they will be there for me when I need it and because I’m genuinely just tired/bored most of the time.
One time, my friend asked me if I’d like to spend time with her, and I just point-blank said “No”. IDK if that’s rude just because I’m being honest and also because it’s not personal, I don’t want to engage with anyone.
It seems like you don’t put any effort in the friendship, and expect that your friends “will be there for you”. That’s selfish.
You should see her other comments. She thinks her friends are useless and wonders “Why try if you suck at everything?”
She thinks that she will always be better than her friends and that she’s better than them at sports “without trying”.
Do you think this is just a troll or an actual teen? I don’t want to waste my time on trolls.
I’m not sure, I knew a mentally ill teen like this. Maybe she is a highly emotionally immature teen.