• Higgs boson@dubvee.org
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    10 hours ago

    what boys? This ignores the original point. There isnt some big group of friends just waiting for a cry for help… The point is they arent receptive to it and it causes them to withdraw. A dude feeling suicidal? Literally no wants to hear it. Theyll just feel uncomfortable and avoid you.

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      9 hours ago

      Sounds like you need new boys. If you tell your friends you’re feeling that low and they withdraw from you because it makes them feel icky, they aren’t your friends. They’re self centered pricks who aren’t worth investing your time or feeling into.

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            6 hours ago

            K.

            This you?

            I’ve tried being open with friends and it just didn’t seem like it mattered much to them. I don’t have many close friends, almost none to be honest.

            It seems you should heed your own advice

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              6 hours ago

              I am in therapy? This isn’t the burn you thought it was. You can talk to your friends and a professional counselor. What a weird reply.