Damn 4 days before the 10th anniversary. I am sorry for you. Did you or your ex plan anything for that supposedly special day? It seems like your ex did it a first time and again. How much time did pass between those gut wrenching incidents? I hope you can find the strength to navigate the next steps.
We were going to take a vacation in Mexico, a little after the actual anniversary. I was hoping it was going to be a nice bonding experience, but oh well, not to be.
This is useful context if you want more detail - was intentionally vague on timelines in this post but it was within the first 5 years of marriage: https://sh.itjust.works/comment/18349778
Reiterates the importance that the guilty party actually needs to reform for anything in that post to mean fuck all.
Damn 4 days before the 10th anniversary. I am sorry for you. Did you or your ex plan anything for that supposedly special day? It seems like your ex did it a first time and again. How much time did pass between those gut wrenching incidents? I hope you can find the strength to navigate the next steps.
We were going to take a vacation in Mexico, a little after the actual anniversary. I was hoping it was going to be a nice bonding experience, but oh well, not to be.
This is useful context if you want more detail - was intentionally vague on timelines in this post but it was within the first 5 years of marriage: https://sh.itjust.works/comment/18349778
Reiterates the importance that the guilty party actually needs to reform for anything in that post to mean fuck all.
I appreciate your well-wishes.