So I’m only 15. While I hope my boyfriend is the one for me, I also doubt it. I have had a girlfriend “Amy” since I was 12 but I am polyamorous and so is my boyfriend “Avery”. He is also dating some dude who I’ll call “Alex” since his name starts with the same letter as Avery’s and my girlfriend’s.
He said he’d love to call sometime and I’m sure he loves us equally, but he calls Alex for hours a day, for like 5-12 hours, and barely acknowledges my texts, he just reads them. In fact, he asked me to hang out with him but that was because he was bored that Alex wouldn’t be coming over.
Idk what to do. I feel wrongfully a bit sad and like I’m the bad guy.
They sleep on calls all the time too at night and I’m trying not to care but I’m sad because he spends more time with Alex than me. I wanna sleep over at his house sometime and do all the stuff they do but he can’t because he’s always busy with Alex. Maybe I’d be liked more if I was a boy…
Based on this and the other comments you’ve said here it sounds like it’s time to go your separate ways. They are not the one for you because they are showing you that you are not the one for them. Successful relationships MUST work both ways. Both partners must be valued and feel valued.
And once you leave someone, don’t go back to them. If someone is going to show you who they are believe them the first time.