It seems that your heart was in the right place:-).
The original person may likewise have wanted to have meant well, but I wanted to point out how that mode of thinking is exceedingly dangerous, and while it may provide a small measure of emotional satisfaction in the short-term, in the long term is a scorched earth policy that leaves nothing good behind - i.e., consent MUST matter, this is SO crucial.
Fwiw I did not presume that you were an “adversary” here, either then or now.
It seems that your heart was in the right place:-).
The original person may likewise have wanted to have meant well, but I wanted to point out how that mode of thinking is exceedingly dangerous, and while it may provide a small measure of emotional satisfaction in the short-term, in the long term is a scorched earth policy that leaves nothing good behind - i.e., consent MUST matter, this is SO crucial.
Fwiw I did not presume that you were an “adversary” here, either then or now.