Hey, im 20M. I have only dated and thought abt dating women. I only get turned on by women. However, I like dressing up like a girl, sometimes. Sometimes, ill throw on thigh highs and wear an oversized sweater when im home alone. Im just so confused about this. I have never felt an urge to date men… so why exactly do I do these things? I feel so confused, and I have been this way for years. Up until last year I never dressed or experimented being more “girly”. I do this all in the privacy of my bedroom, never outside of it.
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You don’t have to want to date men to want to be feminine. I’m a femme lesbian who prefers other femmes. I’ve known straight and bi women who like their men more in touch with their feminine side (just as I’ve known some who find femininity in men unattractive).
There are infinite variations on how to live, only you can decide how you ought to.