Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 10 months agoWhat's the biggest "Green Flag" that could be misinterpreted as a "Red Flag"?message-squaremessage-square19fedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down10
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squareWhat's the biggest "Green Flag" that could be misinterpreted as a "Red Flag"?Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 10 months agomessage-square19fedilink
minus-squarePantherina@feddit.delinkfedilinkarrow-up1·10 months agoAll these stupid “ignore them to seem attractive because interested = unsexy” Not being a virgin anymore? Thats something good too. Having actively broken up a past relationship, knowing barriers. Hanging out with friends rather than you sometimes, which is really important “relationship time management”
minus-square520@kbin.sociallinkfedilinkarrow-up0·10 months ago Not being a virgin anymore? Thats something good too. I find it absurd that virginity or lack thereof has any bearing.
minus-squareDamaskox@kbin.sociallinkfedilinkarrow-up1·10 months agoI guess it feels magical to be someone’s first. But as @otp said - experience brings knowledge of yourself and others and can make stuff more enjoyable and easier to do.
All these stupid “ignore them to seem attractive because interested = unsexy”
Not being a virgin anymore? Thats something good too.
Having actively broken up a past relationship, knowing barriers.
Hanging out with friends rather than you sometimes, which is really important “relationship time management”
I find it absurd that virginity or lack thereof has any bearing.
I guess it feels magical to be someone’s first.
But as @otp said - experience brings knowledge of yourself and others and can make stuff more enjoyable and easier to do.