• Omega_Jimes@lemmy.ca
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    11 months ago

    I really hate that some people I know only use Facebook Messenger, some use Instagram, some use Discord, and some use text.

    It’s a nightmare when working in groups for uni, so I just email everyone. Email has all the features I like.

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      11 months ago

      I have plenty of folks in my circles who never read or reply to emails :p

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    11 months ago

    The elephant in the room, of course, is that this is literally only a problem in the United States. Everywhere else in the world, folks are totally fine using messaging apps. WhatsApp is pretty popular worldwide, and there are regional favorites too. But, the point is, it’s only in the States that people seem to be against this idea. The answer for why is very much up for debate, but the conversation is, at this point, just getting exhausting.

    Can confirm, as a Brit. We probably would have a sardonic explanation for why only people in the States are against using other messengers too…

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      11 months ago

      I went to great lengths to get my family group chat migrated from FB Messenger over to WhatsApp, and then Meta bought WhatsApp. I’m doomed. I’ll never get these Americans to transition to something like Signal

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      11 months ago

      I’m Canadian and use a ton of messaging services. It had honestly become ridiculous until I started using Beeper!

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      11 months ago

      Yep. In Japan we all use LINE with a small fraction of (largely Western foreigners) using whatsapp. Korea has kakaotalk with some (also?) using LINE. I’m not sure what’s most popular in Chinese circles these days; WeChat, maybe?

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      11 months ago

      I think this might be changing in the U.S., because my friend group only talks on Discord. I don’t even have their phone numbers.

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    11 months ago

    I still really miss Google Hangouts. It was integrated with Gmail as a web interface. The web and mobile app synced perfectly. You could use SMS/MMS, or chat, seamlessly in the same interface. Contacts worked correctly. SMS and chat history saved to Gmail so all the text was searchable. It was AMAZING and Google killed it for no reason, only to later replace it with inferior options.

    Edit: oh yeah, you could also make phone calls, or group voice and video calls using the same app/web interface.

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    11 months ago

    I want to use good apps, but my family members don’t. I can’t just avoid my family.

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    11 months ago

    What is wrong with simply texting? If anyone tells me I need to get a specific app to message them, then I won’t be messaging them.

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      11 months ago

      Security is probably the most important, but there are also general chat utility features such as replies and read receipts.

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      11 months ago

      This right here is the attitude that most people have, because it’s not convenient for them. Suck it up, there are many things in life you do not want to do, but you have to do them anyways.