I would ssh into the opnsense box and press 8 to run the shell terminal and then run dmesg and go back to the time the server rebooted, there you can see the events leading up to the shutdown.
That’s awesome, best of luck it stays that way!
Dang, how does your isp feel about that many machines talking out to the internet, have they made you pay for business plans yet?
If you want privacy try njalla. A bit more expensive but they do try hide as much data as possible and I’ve never had any downtime with them.
I think this is a sound way of doing it. Rather than trying to force people to switch and potentially alienating them from using an app like signal and moving away from their usual apps. The people who really want to continue chatting with you will come along for the ride.
Yes it’s been like that forever. Before it used to outright block the entire domain.
The way I get around the syncing issue is to set my syncthing to sync when my phone is charging so it’s very unlikely to not be in sync, or if I change a password on the PC I’ll plug my phone into a USB and it syncs straight away.
I also use KeepassDX on Android and never have those issues.