Personal attacks are pretty subjective. As are the “uncivil” rules. But I think context really matters. If I told you that I thought you should go kill yourself, which I am not, that would definitely be Something I should be banned for.
Name calling is a good comment to remove, but only if the other party is 100% innocent. I wouldn’t want anyone banned for calling me a cunt. Just let people slap fight.
Blatant racism, sexism, bigotry, those get removed, multiples are a ban, but you can’t take the reported reason as fact.
Modding is rough, I get it. Do less modding. We won’t burn it down.
No no, keep their funding but make a Pharmaceutical company around it and only release pills with enough potency to treat instead of cure