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Cake day: July 24th, 2024

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  • Maaaaate same. There was this one girl I dated whom I’ve told I just don’t feel like doing what she felt like doing that night and she said “Alright, we can just watch some more eps of <show we were watching>” and I broke down right there and then.

    I ended up forcing my own options on her which isn’t healthy in itself but we could and can talk about this and it’s so weird.



  • Sure, if you’re homeless you save on rent. But then do you eat out every day? Spend time in bars instead of on your couch?

    Living in your car might be feasible in North America but good luck trying that in Europe. Also good luck keeping a bank account let alone a job without an address.

    If I want to live close to my job without paying rent or taking a loan I gotta save about 1M Euros and be lucky with finding a place. That’s a lot of skipped Frappuccino lattes.



  • Meh, hard disagree. Outright intentional racism (and of other forms of hate) are terrible, but at least they’re openly visible.

    The more dangerous form is the everyday unintentional ingrained beliefs that people have even against their core values, like how I am more impressed by a female programmer or the way I at first misread that meme.

    It’s those that are more widespread and make it so much harder to eradicate the openly intentional hate.