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minus-squareMaalus@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up4arrow-down14·1 month agoMarriage isn’t a surprise but the engagement can be.
minus-squareMiles O'Brien@startrek.websitelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up23·1 month agoNeither the question nor the answer should ever be a surprise. The time, and location of proposal are the surprise. When I asked my now wife, I knew for sure she was going to say yes, and I knew she would want a simple ring with her birth stone instead of a diamond. She had no idea I was going to ask her in the manner I did while we were out camping. that was the surprise for her. Not the question itself.
minus-squareMaggoty@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up19·1 month agoNope. If the question was a surprise then your communication skills as a couple aren’t there yet.
minus-squareNABDad@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up15·1 month agoThe timing can be a surprise, but if you don’t know the answer, don’t ask the question.
minus-squareÐ Greıt Þu̇mpkin@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up12·1 month agoThe moment it becomes official is the surprise, ths actual context of it cannot ever be one.
minus-squarePunnyName@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down3·1 month agoEngagement is the initiation of marriage, they are the same. So your sentence doesn’t make sense
Marriage isn’t a surprise but the engagement can be.
Neither the question nor the answer should ever be a surprise.
The time, and location of proposal are the surprise.
When I asked my now wife, I knew for sure she was going to say yes, and I knew she would want a simple ring with her birth stone instead of a diamond.
She had no idea I was going to ask her in the manner I did while we were out camping. that was the surprise for her. Not the question itself.
Nope. If the question was a surprise then your communication skills as a couple aren’t there yet.
The timing can be a surprise, but if you don’t know the answer, don’t ask the question.
The moment it becomes official is the surprise, ths actual context of it cannot ever be one.
Engagement is the initiation of marriage, they are the same. So your sentence doesn’t make sense