It’s been almost a year since I’ve tried online dating. I can’t imagine what the catfishes are like now that they have easy access to generative AI.
I would tell you, but in those 2 months I got exactly 1 like, and it was from a dude trolling with woman in the profile instead of man, possibly a friend of the dude doing the troll.
It’s terrifying
So I had a couple of married women tell me what was wrong
“You need anyone but whoever took those photos to take those photos. And no selfies.”
So now I have to find people that can take pictures and leave the house. Modern dating standards really are unrealistic.
There’s this guy, his name is Nathan. I think he could help you. He graduated from business school with really good grades.
I feel personally attacked
Yeah—what the heck. Might as well tell people how fat and ugly I am while they’re at 'cause this does me no favors.
16 years man I barely even ever get bots liking my profile, going to make it 17 years though
I managed to find love through online dating, but it’s true that you need to put a lot of time and effort into making an interesting and informative profile, sorting through all the low-effort users to find the people who are actually invested, and crafting engaging and personalized opening messages for the people among them who you happen to find attractive. There’s a big incentive to just spam everyone with “hey,” but all that does is put more money in the company’s pockets from months of no hits.
