• SCB@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    I am quite certain that you are a skilled enough communicator to not say

    If I had to redo my life, that’s what I’d do.

    Which is directly wishing your children were never born, and is a fundamentally different conversation from “By all means, opt not to have children - our financial lives would look quite different if we did not.”

    As with most things, how you say it matters as much or more than what you’re saying.