This is going to sound stupid, but one day I was talking with my ex-friend “Carol”. While we were friends, someone said the word “heterozygous”. Carol mentioned that she was straight, so I jokingly said "hetero, like you, Carol!’
She acted as if I called her a slur and got very offended, saying “How dare you call me ‘hetero’?!” so I apologized.
(We are ex-friends because of drama [not this], which is kind of a long story, but I guess not the point of the post.)
I have heard many straight people call themselves “hetero”, though, including myself when I thought I was straight.
I mean… It could be if the person you called hetero is actually gay. Are you sure this person is straight?
She said she only liked men and has called herself straight multiple times.
Fair enough, though