Someone asked a Discord server I’m about if they were too old to start learning mandolin. I told them that if they wanted to do world-wide tours then maybe, but if they just want to play mandolin then absolutely fucking not, they’re fine. To their credit, they immediately went “oh yea, true!”
Also the main reason kids learn so well is because they are often fully immersed in whatevee it is(especially languages). Even kids can’t really speak their language perfectly for many years, so we gotta be easier on ourselves when we only have a few hours a week to practice something.
yess, it can be quite a challenge to overcome things like expectations & perfectionist tendencies and embrace play & experimentation, as well as extend compassion to ourselves as tired little creatures trying to get by in a tough world. i still have struggles with that but am very much about giving things a try just because they seem interesting, and not putting any expectations other than “might be fun” on it. it’s ok to just have a chill time & enjoy the journey! ofc it’s also ok to have more ambitious/professional goals but i feel like it doesn’t get said enough that it’s actually fine to be a hobbyist and even to be bad at hobbies (as long as safety is in order anyway).
Someone asked a Discord server I’m about if they were too old to start learning mandolin. I told them that if they wanted to do world-wide tours then maybe, but if they just want to play mandolin then absolutely fucking not, they’re fine. To their credit, they immediately went “oh yea, true!”
Also the main reason kids learn so well is because they are often fully immersed in whatevee it is(especially languages). Even kids can’t really speak their language perfectly for many years, so we gotta be easier on ourselves when we only have a few hours a week to practice something.
yess, it can be quite a challenge to overcome things like expectations & perfectionist tendencies and embrace play & experimentation, as well as extend compassion to ourselves as tired little creatures trying to get by in a tough world. i still have struggles with that but am very much about giving things a try just because they seem interesting, and not putting any expectations other than “might be fun” on it. it’s ok to just have a chill time & enjoy the journey! ofc it’s also ok to have more ambitious/professional goals but i feel like it doesn’t get said enough that it’s actually fine to be a hobbyist and even to be bad at hobbies (as long as safety is in order anyway).