• makyo@lemmy.world
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    22 days ago

    Okay but then which of my ideas do I pick to avoid the paralysis that I faced the last five years

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      22 days ago

      I had this same issue lol eventually I picked the first thing on the list and just started. Once you get into it and finish one thing the next one won’t seem so overwhelming to get started on

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          18 days ago

          Awesome! Just work on one thing at a time and take your time! It really does feel great to finally finish something you’ve been putting off forever and finding out it wasn’t nearly as big of a deal as you thought it was lol

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      22 days ago

      It has been advised to try a different tactic. Take your ideas and try them all, one at a time. The goal is to find and stop doing, all of the ideas that don’t work as fast as possible.

      No longer are you guessing at the best idea, but are removing the worst ideas.

      If this does not appeal to you, please discard it rapidly.

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    22 days ago

    True story, I thought I was too old for grad school to switch careers at 36. It was nonsense. I am so much happier now in my 40s working a job I love.

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    22 days ago

    This almost perfectly describes all the stuff I planned to do when I was still drinking all the time. I’d get an idea for something then decide it was too overwhelming to even really get started on and then just drink to “relax” and never come back to it. Most of those projects I’ve either completed now or at least have gotten well underway and none of it was nearly as difficult as I’d convinced myself it would be lol

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    22 days ago

    I wanted to get back into horse riding and just doing stuff with horses. I found a stables to volunteer at and I get riding lessons once a week. It’s amazing. So glad I called the place when I did. Now I have a group of new friends and I get to do everything I want with the horses aside from official lessons, in exchange for barn chores. I love it

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    22 days ago

    Tired of lying in the sunshine, staying home to watch the rain

    And you are young and life is long and there is time to kill today

    And then one day you find ten years have got behind you

    No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun

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    22 days ago

    And the best part is that you’ll start and join a community and meet a bunch of people who started even later than you still having a great time. Also, at 19, 5 years was more than a quarter of that dude’s life. I’m not even 30 yet but realized a while back just how slowly the years really pass when you’re out of school and finally paying attention and able to have a vague level of control.