• Demdaru@lemmy.world
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        7 months ago

        Older gens I’d say. My mother had afriend who always came in without knockin and just…vibed. Like they suddenly materialised in kitchen and talked while eating or materialised near table and drank coffee.

        My partner’s mother had someone like that too.

        Meanwhile I am having a meltdown if someone tries the door before knocking (they are always locked anyway)

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          7 months ago

          That sounds wonderful. I want neighbors like that. I guess I can’t sit around waiting for neighbors like that, eh. I need to go out and make neighbors like that.

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        7 months ago

        People with close friends, i guess.
        My friends definitely don’t want me around. lol

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          7 months ago

          As a person with close friends, there’s just no time in the morning. Even if we lived close by, like, no. I don’t even have time to eat breakfast in the morning those days when I drop the kids at school.

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            7 months ago

            Yeah, my best friend lives just around the corner and we have this kind of friendship. We work together and both work from home, so we often work from each other’s houses.

            We both have wives and kids but our families are close enough that we often just turn up at each other’s houses without asking or organising anything. We eat dinner together about half the time.

            But we pretty much never have breakfast together - mornings are far too busy for that.

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            7 months ago

            Really depends on your situation. I used to leave the house at 10 to avoid the rush in both directions. This was great until I had kids. With kids it’s an absolute no go.

            But most of the friends in Friends don’t have kids.

            • Victor@lemmy.world
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              7 months ago

              Really depends on your situation.

              I think this is key. Most people don’t have a situation where they both don’t have kids and don’t need to be at work early in the morning.

              I have a job where I don’t need to be in very early or at all. But them darn kids gotta get to school or I’m breaking the law. 😅

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      7 months ago

      Ross doesn’t live in the same building. Later on he moves into the building across the road from them though. Phoebe lives elsewhere as well.