• BussyCat@lemmy.world
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      14 days ago

      Like the guy defenitely comes off as a dick but also if you check out conventional social media you will see guys who talk about being expected to pay for not just the girl but also their friend, and you will see girls talk about how if she brings a friend for protection then the guy should pay for the friend too.

      So many variables exist that we don’t know but for some people there an expectation that if a girl brings a friend the guy needs to pay for both and I wouldn’t default that to just misogyny

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        13 days ago

        I had girls bring a friend with them when I asked them out on a date and it didn’t even occur to me that I would pay for them. But also I wouldn’t expect the friend to hang around the entire time either, once it turned out I wasn’t trying to hurt anyone they generally went away.

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      13 days ago

      She NEVER said that she didn’t expect him to pay, she just ignored it, and kept justifying why it was okay to bring her friend. She fully expected him to pay for dinner and drinks for both.

      These girls are predators, and they tried to treat him like a chump, and people are pissed because he showed some self-respect.

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        13 days ago

        These girls are predators, and they tried to treat him like a chump

        You’ve been successfully baited by a fake screenshot and are displaying misogyny.

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          13 days ago

          It’s not misogyny to recognize and acknowledge that women can be bad people, just like men can be. In fact, recognizing that women are just regular people, is the opposite of misogyny.

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            13 days ago

            I don’t think all women are perfect (and never said such), but this post is 100% a fake screenshot that’s misogynistic rage bait.