• TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world
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    23 days ago

    You cannot love another if you don’t love yourself. The best is finding someone who wants to grow beyond their past hurts. Become better people. Together.

    Good luck all.

    Oops we are in shitposts not couple memes. I mean…

    The main quest is marriage. The side quest is eating strangers asses. Ive always gotten distracted dungeon crawling. 🫠

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      23 days ago

      Lmao @ dungeon crawling

      You are right, though. It’s not fair to any partner if you expect them to fulfill the hole in your emotional wellness. All you are doing is setting yourself up to be emotionally fragile and codependent on them.

      If you’re like me, you won’t listen to the information above, but I promise you that I learned this the hard way.

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    23 days ago

    Currently in the middle of a divorce and realizing this is this same exact thing. Finding a partner doesn’t improve your self worth, or value. It should compliment it.

    Whenever I start dating again I feel the stakes will be so much lower to find someone than when I found my soon to be ex. It might actually be a nice experience than a stressful one.

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    23 days ago

    wait did you get banned or something? isn’t this like the fourth account?

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    23 days ago

    Life when you fully understand gender and sexual orientation is a completely made up concept. You just need to be the true self and embrace that life is short and be confident to express your feelings.

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      23 days ago

      Out of curiosity, if it’s all completely made up, how would you explain the fact that people across different cultures and time periods consistently report similar patterns in sexual orientation? That suggests there’s something deeper going on than just social invention.

      That said, I completely agree with you on being authentic — I just think the “completely made up” part might be a stretch