• DJKJuicy@sh.itjust.works
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    I used to be a picky eater.

    The older I get the more I can’t stand picky eaters.

    I was wrong when I was a picky eater.

    It’s so annoying. People base whole chunks of their personality on not liking tomatoes or cilantro or whatever. Grow up. Pathetic.

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      Cilantro tastes like bug spray to me and no amount of eating it anyway has helped and any significant amount ruins whatever I’m eating. That said, the only time I bring it up is in conversations like these.

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      I used to be picky too, I learned it from my mother. At some point I realized that if a restaurant is serving it, that means people are buying it, and its worth trying. It turns out that most food is delicious, even if I think its a little weird at first.

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        Exactly! If millions of people are eating something, then it probably tastes good! You just haven’t really tried it yet.

        You’re not a special unique flower because you don’t like something. You not liking avocados doesn’t make you more interesting, it makes you boring.

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    I genuinely don’t like eating steak.

    I’ll eat it if it’s put in front of me but I genuinely just don’t get the appeal of a giant slab of meat that’s that chewy (even after being tenderised) and fights you when you cut it.

    Steak chunks that have marinated in a sauce for a long time until they melt apart in your mouth is devine.

    But a giant hunk just slapped on the plate isn’t my thing at all and I don’t understand why people like it.

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      Steak is amazing when properly cooked and seasoned (salt, pepper, garlic powder). If its chewy its likely a cheap cut, cooked too long, or cut the wrong way (cut against the grain, not with it).

      • 𝕱𝖎𝖗𝖊𝖜𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍@lemmy.world
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        Since we’re doing hot takes, I disagree. This one’s gonna piss off a lot of people.

        I’m also not a huge steak eater, but I find medium well and well done are less chewy than the other options. Rare and medium rare are like eating gum. I can’t get them down.

        I do love a slow cooked meat that can fall apart with a fork

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      I tried balut in the Philippines. Definitely something you should try at least once.

      It’s just another food that people eat everyday that someone tried to make sound scary. Not sure why people do that.

      When I was a kid they told me that Koreans eat cabbage that they bury in a jar in their backyard for a month. OH MY GOD SCARY.

      Now I eat kimchi 2-3 times a week.

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    Spicy food challenges are doing everything to ruin spicy food for everyone. They focus entirely on heat, not flavor.

    If you want a spicy hot challenge and only care about the heat, there’s pepper spray.

    But super spicy hot foods should be intentionally made to also taste great. The challenge he should be the allure of the spicy food conflicting with the pain it puts you in. If you’re gonna struggle with the heat, you should be equally tempted by the taste.

    Da Bomb, for example, is a fucking abomination and shouldn’t ever have stayed in business, nor be promoted by Hot Ones.

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      For some of us who like spice, it can be tough to get that across. “No heat challenge, but spice it like it should be. Spice it as if I weren’t white”

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    Car dependency is bad for food culture. It encourages massive chains and drive throughs and makes it harder for mom and pops to thrive

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    I like. Steak. Well. Done. Because. That is how. I. Like. It.

    it’s not because I can’t tell truly unsafe undercooked meat from rare

    it’s not because I don’t like steak at all

    it’s not because i fantasize about eating leather

    IT’S HOW I PERSONALLY ENJOY THE TEXTURE AND FLAVOR OF A STEAK

    now that’s out of the way I’ll be ordering the veggie burger because i have overwhelming ecological guilt lol

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    Peas are a shit vegetable and only get used a lot because they’re easy to freeze and just throw into a meal at the last moment. But they pollute the whole dish with their noxious flavor.

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    Tradition and authenticity is bullshit.

    Food from good ingredients prepared well matters more than if the cheese was stared at for two hours by the sheepwife of the mayor of Scrumthrorpeshireffield.

    For example: Wine tasters were clear that French wine just tasted better than Californian wine. They were extremely convinced. Then they tried a blind test and hoo boy did everyone get pissed when they couldn’t tell the French wine was better without knowing it was French first. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judgment_of_Paris_(wine)

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      Traditional and culture are good if you like the food as it was originally. Here in the us, too much ethnic food is Americanized, sometimes for the worst. After experiencing a few more authentic Chinese restaurants, I’ve come to realize the many I don’t like are because they’ve been Americanized. Badly. A lot more sweet, milder flavors, everything fried.

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      Tradition and authenticity are good and important if your goal is to experience the culture.

      If your goal is to just eat good food, then they’re not important at all.

      For example, if you go to Italy and want to really experience Italian food culture, then you should be looking for tradition and authenticity. But if you go to Italy and you just want some good, tasty food … then you don’t need to worry so much about that.

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        if your goal is to experience the culture

        I think people also get touchy on what is “authentic”. Italian cuisine in Italy changed in a similar manner to Italian-American cuisine in the USA. So, you can have “authentic” Italian-American cuisine that comes from Italian roots, but Italians from Italy don’t want that cuisine to be seen as authentic.

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          Chicken Parmesan is what happens when you take Italian people and put them in America. You take Italians, with the cooking methods they know, their tastes, and set them down in 19th century New York, they make Chicken Parm. This is a well-tested hypothesis.

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        but then again culture is not comprised only of traditional ways of preparing food but also how it evolved to where we are

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        True. Culture, history, etc as an experience is valid.

        It is where people pretend it is important to quality and taste, I call bullshit.

        As for the experience… If the old bearded Italian man who served you traditional cheesemelt pig in wooden clogs while singing Por Trancone Parditto were to, say, replace the cheese with Swedish Gulost and not tell you… You would have the same experience.

        Not saying it’d be the same, but that the food taste and quality are entirely separate from the authenticity.

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      For example: Wine

      I get what you’re saying, and it’s true, but “wine” is a horrible choice…

      It can take five years for a vine to produce wine grapes. And even after they’re harvested, its a long process where lots can go wrong.

      It wasn’t that people really thought no one could make better wine than France, it’s that no one else was consistently doing it yet. Everyone knew if Cali vineyards kept at it, they’d eventually level the playing field.

      Most of the “outcry” about the result, was in France and made by the insanely wealthy people who owned the French vineyards

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        Not quite. French wine was diverse, with different regions producing the type of wine they did best.

        California came along with marketing and convinced everyone wine should all be a heavy oaky drink that overpowers your food. They turned wine into McDonalds where it all tastes the same. Pretty sure Cali vineyards are owned by insanely wealthy people. Wine is just marketing now, people don’t want diversity, the want a big mac in every bottle.

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          You can pour cheap, bad wine into an expensive looking bottle and people will like it more. Marketing is pretty much all wine has going for it.

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          But it was a blind taste test by experts which showed that the best Californian wines could beat the best French ones, not marketing.

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            LOL…the opinions of ‘experts’ on wine has been debunked so many times.

            Dude…those experts simply know how identify California wine and are paid to tell you it’s ‘better’.

            The fact that people defer to experts to tell if they like a wine or not is very telling.

            I could market Franzia to $200 a bottle with the right bottle shape and label, and of course natural corks, more bullshit.

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      Thinking of for recipes, authenticity matters if you’re wanting that specific thing the way you’ve always (more or less) had it. Otherwise, go wild.

      I’m always reminded of the time a chef my mother was dating tried to impress me by cooking pierogi (my favorite non-seafood food). He tried to make it fancy with toppings and it was so unsatisfying. Just give me my fried onions and sour cream.

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      For example: Wine tasters were clear that French wine just tasted better than Californian wine. They were extremely convinced. Then they tried a blind test and hoo boy did everyone get pissed when they couldn’t tell the French wine was better without knowing it was French first. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judgment_of_Paris_(wine)

      Two Buck Chuck (an inexpensive blend of wines sold by Trader Joe’s) also has scored well among California wines. So it’s not like expensive California wines are obliterating more-pedestrian counterparts, either.

      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charles_Shaw_wine

      Charles Shaw is an American brand of bargain-priced wine.[1] Largely made from California grapes, Charles Shaw wines include Cabernet Sauvignon, White Zinfandel, Merlot, Chardonnay, Sauvignon Blanc, Shiraz, Valdiguié in the style of Beaujolais nouveau, and limited quantities of Pinot Grigio.

      The cost of the wine is about 30 to 40 percent of the price, with the bottle, cork and distribution the larger part.

      Charles Shaw wines were introduced at Trader Joe’s grocery stores in California in 2002 at a price of USD$1.99 per bottle, earning the wines the nickname “Two Buck Chuck”, and eventually sold 800 million bottles between 2002 and 2013.[2]

      At the 28th Annual International Eastern Wine Competition, Shaw’s 2002 Shiraz received the double gold medal, beating approximately 2,300 other wines in the competition.[13]

      I’d add that the same sort of thing goes for “audiophile” gear. Things should be blind-tested. It’s very easy to have a perceptually different experience when you know what it is that you’re using.

      I remember a point where Joshua Bell was busking in the New York subway.

      https://www.classicfm.com/artists/joshua-bell/violin-busking-washington-subway/

      He’s one of the finest talents in the classical music world, and in 2007 violinist Joshua Bell went busking as an experiment. Would the public realise just what was happening, alongside their daily bustle?

      Music director of the Academy of St Martin in the Fields, worldwide star soloist, and former child prodigy. His instrument is a Stradivarius from 1713 and his hair is an icon of classical music in itself…

      Joshua Bell is one of the world’s great virtuosos, and one of the biggest names in classical music.

      And in 2007 he did some anonymous busking, as a little social experiment to see what might happen.

      Over a period of 43 minutes, the violinist performed six classical pieces, two from Bach pieces, one Massenet, and one each from Schubert and Ponce.

      Out of 1,097 people that passed by Bell, 27 gave money, and only seven actually stopped and listened for any length of time.

      In total, Bell made $52.17 (£42.18). And this includes a $20 note from someone who recognised him.

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        I remember the violinist one when that came out, and watched some of the videos. He made terrible choices for songs to play that would be nonsensical unmelodious noise if listened to in a second or two of passing by. If someone on the street just hears a disconnected sequence of unrelated notes they’re not going to stop unless they are specifically looking out to be entertained. I’m sure he’s an incredible musician but musician and busker are different skills. A good busker can be a mediocre musician but play catchy, immediately compelling or memorable songs that are recognizable and instantly understood, and have a distinctive stage/street presence.

        I was so frustrated by the implication that because he made a pittance that “people don’t know good quality” etc. No, he was just terrible at busking. Honestly he was lucky that he pulled even that much doing it for the first time. What do you honestly think is more attention getting, Violin Partita No. 2 in D Minor played by some white dude in a ball cap or a keytar wielding bear playing a cover of Watermelon Sugar with his whole heart and soul?

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      I don’t entirely disagree. But the thing about tradition is, it’s done the same way every time. I’m more likely to trust the person who has done a thing their whole life and learned from their parents rather than someone who started last week.

      But I’d prefer either of them over mass-produced versions.

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    Gastro pubs are the definition of “doing too much” and people only visit for the novelty, so you see them pop up and then shut down within a year or two. Kinda like electronics for rich people

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      the overwhelming majority of restaurants shutdown within a year or two, mainly because unless that shit is truly your life’s dream…running a restaurant (small businesses in general really) fucking sucks.

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    Its more important to enjoy what you are eating than it is to follow someone else’s food “rules”. Put ketchup on hotdogs, pineapple on pizza, smear wasabi on sushi, coffee with pasta.

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      smear wasabi on sushi

      There is nothing wrong with this. Sushi cehfs put it on the underside. If you want more, put it on top. It’s generally considered bad manners to mix soy sauce with wasabi and dunk but, to be honest, I see that fairly frequently here in Japan as well. Mixing soy sauce and wasabi to pour over chirashi is fine.

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      Ah I see you are enjoying yourself. Would you care to know that you are, in fact, enjoying yourself incorrectly?

      There is no joy to be had the way you are doing it. If there is, it is a fault in your character.

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        The only time I think somebody can really enjoy something incorrectly is in karaoke (not bar karaoke, real karaoke where you get a room) because you can bring down the whole experience so easily. It’s a social activity, not a contest. And it’s a fun activity, not a wake.

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      I like ketchup and mustard on my dogs. I think pineapple on pizza is revolting, but I don’t pineapple-shame those who like it.

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      I love food bullies who get off on telling people how to eat and what they should like. The Chef was written for those people.

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      I got a hotdog at a food truck that appeared near my house a few years ago. I asked for just ketchup on the dog. She laughed and said “You’re a little boy! That’s OK, little boys get hotdogs too.” I’m like, lady I am giving you money right now, is there a version of this encounter where you’re not judging me?

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      coffee with pasta, Do you just plonk it in with the sugar or do you dunk like a biscuit?

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      Ketchup and Mustard is hot dog glory. What ever the fuck I was served in Chicago had me searching for the meat

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        I feel obligated to plug the Seattle dog simply for being a different third option.

        A Seattle dog is simply a hot dog on a roll that has been toasted inside and had a shmear of cream cheese. Standard is to come with fried onions, but it’s optional. Then you can add whatever you wants far as the usual hot dog toppings go. The hot dog or sausage is usually split open and grilled.

        I like it with fried onions, sauerkraut, mustard, and a bit of ketchup. The ketchup balances out the saltiness of the rest. You could do relish. I also like it just plain with no extras.

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      Try it the recommended way for at least one or two bites and then judge how to improve it for yourself.