• plutopos@lemmy.zip
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    17 hours ago

    The people who you actually want to be around won’t judge you anyways. Sure, sometimes it’s worth it to avoid other people’s judgement (e.g. if it’s someone you’re forced to spend time with, like your coworker, or if your safety is on the line). But worrying about people’s judgement for the sake of it is just shackling

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    3 days ago

    I’m a guy, but I was born with a hand anomaly that I was mercilessly teased about when I was a kid. I had this realization when I was in kindergarten, and it gave me the confidence to be who I want to be for the rest of my life. It is indeed a powerful mindset if you can actually believe it, though it does make you a bit of an outcast when the other kids realize teasing doesn’t work on you. Even the kids that don’t tease their peers will think you’re weird for not reacting to it.

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    3 days ago

    Ladies with this attitude gave us Heated Rivalry. And for that, I am thankful, I wanna eat those hockey player asses 🥵🥵🥵

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    3 days ago

    This is clearly a screenshot of a post about girls from another platform. It’s not been manipulated to be about one gender or another, it just is what it is. I’d love to comment about the content itself. Instead I have to ask:

    What groups would straight white cis men not what-about-me on? Ethnic minorities? Physical disabilities? LGBTQIA+? Why when it’s women you think your privilege is legit? Do you ever think this post is not applicable to you? Are there any posts you would be ok to just feel free to stfu and scroll on?

    Honest questions because I am baffled why this always is occurring

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      2 days ago

      You should see how often men insist on barging into the womensstuff community and refusing to follow the rules.

      It really bothers some men when women exist without acknowledging them.

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      2 days ago

      Im not sure why its so hard to see why people would be able to relate to posts about other genders. There is a lot of shared commonality. Maybe its just a lack of empathy.

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    3 days ago

    I feel like people often take something that’s generally true and attribute it to something specific about them.

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    3 days ago

    The men/enbies in the comments should make their own post instead of freeloading on women all the time