• TimewornTraveler@lemm.ee
      11·
      11 days ago

      I think this answer is on the right track but not the complete story. why don’t men in the culture also use their own fashion to demonstrate their opulence? we have to look at not only why women but also why not men

      • 418_im_a_teapot@sh.itjust.works
        101·
        11 days ago

        Men definitely use fashion to demonstrate opulence. The range of available styles is far more limited than what women get, but there’s still plenty of variation in that range to send social signals of one’s wealth. In fact it creates a more apples-to-apples point of comparison. I can’t personally look at two dresses and know which one costs more, but I can easily spot the expensive suit.

        And don’t forget that sometimes casual clothing can be used as a status symbol too. In a conference room full of Armani suits, it’s not unheard of for the 26 year old at the head of the table wearing a hoodie and chucks to be the one calling the shots. <Insert Silicon Valley reference here>

    • d00phy@lemmy.worldEnglish
      4·
      11 days ago

      Did they even agree he was a bastard? I vaguely remember this episode. I recall it being pretty tame.

      • masterspace@lemmy.caEnglish
        5·
        11 days ago
        Tap for spoiler

        possibly the only non bastard to make it onto a non-Christmas episode

    • linucs@lemmy.mlOP
      2·
      11 days ago

      Yeah I posted my question a few hours before that was posted, very cool!

    • cabillaud@lemmy.world
      1·
      11 days ago

      Fun fact:Charles II of England is considered to be the inventor of the three-pieces suit. At the time, French King Louis XIV ordered his footmen to adopt the vest as a way to debase the new English style.

  • tal@lemmy.todayEnglish
    5·
    11 days ago

    where the only acceptable style is jacket with pants?

    Well, there’s the Scottish, who can do a gussied-up kilt.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Highland_dress

    Formal evening wear (white tie)

    The traditional white-tie version of Highland dress consists of:

    Men:

    • Formal kilt doublet in barathea or velvet. The regulation, Montrose, Sheriffmuir and Kenmore doublets are suitable in a variety of colours. Velvet is considered to be a more formal material. The Prince Charlie jacket (coatee) is considered to be less formal,[by whom?] although when introduced it was to be worn with a white lace jabot. Tartan jackets are also seen.

    • Waistcoat in white marcella, tartan (usually to match the kilt), red or the same material as the doublet. No waistcoat is worn with the Kenmore or Montrose doublets.

    • Kilt with formal kilt pin

    • White stiff-front shirt with wing collar and white, gold, or silver studs and cufflinks for the Regulation doublet, or a white formal shirt and optional lace cuffs for the Montrose, Sheriffmuir, and Kenmore doublets

    • White lace jabot. A black silk or a white marcella bow tie may be worn in place of the jabot with the regulation doublet (Highland wear often includes a black bow tie even at white-tie events).

    • Black formal shoes or black buckle brogues

    • Tartan or diced kilt hose

    • Silk garter flashes or garter ties

    • Silver-mounted sporran in fur, sealskin or hair with a silver chain belt

    • Black, silver-mounted and jeweled sgian-dubh

    • Highland bonnet (Balmoral or Glengarry) with crest badge (only worn outdoors)

    • Short belted plaid with silver plaid brooch (optional)

    • Scottish dirk (optional)

  • Jarix@lemmy.world
    515·
    11 days ago

    “An Historical”

    This makes my skin crawl. I imagine its what people who hate the word moist feel.

    Did you know 3M stands for MOIST MOIST MOIST

    Not sorry

    • 418_im_a_teapot@sh.itjust.works
      71·
      11 days ago

      We all have those words that drive us crazy. Mine is when people pronounce associate as asso-SHE-ate.

      It’s petty. Like really, really petty. But for some reason it grates on my nerves.

      Also there’s an Reddit, user named random_commas or something like that. They leave legitimately good comments but with a few, extra commas in places that really fuck up the flow while reading. It gets me every single, time! I get all frazzled until I notice, the username and realize i’ve been had. Respect to that, person for having such a harmlessly evil schtick.

      • Jarix@lemmy.world
        2·
        11 days ago

        That is wonderously harmful evil, thanks for sharing. Im slightly worried im going to start noticing that asso-she-ate pronoun-she-ation.

        Time will tell!

    • Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works
      6·
      11 days ago

      In the UK it is not unusual to hear “an ‘istorical” rather than “a historical” so I can - possibly - see where they’re coming from here. UK first letter “h” is going like the French and Spanish version, I.e. silent.

      • Jarix@lemmy.world
        2·
        11 days ago

        I don’t like how much sense that makes.

        But i also am thankful for the framing of it that way cause i think it will stick in my head when I’m reading and be a salve to seeing it spelled out on a page so thanks… Jerk (in a friendly way)

        Edit: spelling

    • linucs@lemmy.mlOP
      4·
      11 days ago

      Sorry man, english is not my first language so sometimes I make mistakes.

      But I searched online and it seems that it’s not totally wrong to use “an” in front of historical, especially in informal writing.

        • Jarix@lemmy.world
          1·
          11 days ago

          Not according to my english teachers, but thats a different discussion and not why I responded

          My english teachers taught it and enforcing it might be why, but it strikes a nerve when i hear it. Not sure why its just uncomfortable to process when i hear it (and i “hear” what im reading in my internal voice. As i understand it not everyone has an internal voice, similar to aphantasia)

      • Jarix@lemmy.world
        2·
        11 days ago

        Another user pointed out a pronunciation that helps. Some accents pronounce the H in words more than others, “an 'istorical” does trigger whatever my brain does with the hard H after an.

        Also Lacking the ability myself, I only have respect for people that speak more than one language.

        Absolutely no need for an apology friend. Its very much a regional thing as well. But having this discussion im sure someone will learn something they didnt know about the world so in a way, we are by having this discussion helping people learn, and i think its good to learn even if its only useful to others witnessing this discussion

    • francisfordpoopola@lemmy.worldEnglish
      31·
      11 days ago

      Added another moist for emphasis.

      Side note: humble brag…I speak and moderate periodically at conferences. My friends give me a list of 5 words to slide into my speech. Moist was one of them. That’s the hardest word to just slip into (as it were) a presentation. I was successful.

      • Dasus@lemmy.world
        3·
        11 days ago

        As someone who didn’t grow up speaking English, I never got why people consider it so annoying as a word.

        • Jarix@lemmy.world
          1·
          11 days ago

          I feel that is like me failing to understand why pinaeapple on pizza offends many people?

  • Ogmios@sh.itjust.works
    452·
    11 days ago

    Because despite what social media would have you believe, women have not actually been horribly oppressed everywhere for all of history, and have actually enjoyed a place of reverence in western culture for a very long time. Men have been willing to sacrifice everything, even their own lives, to ensure the women they loved had whatever could be provided.

    Frankly I’m strongly suspicious that many of these narratives are being pushed by cultures where women are ACTUAL slaves, to try and hide the evidence that it’s even possible to live any other way. “Just look at the disaster which befalls any society where women are given freedom.”

    • CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social
      361·
      11 days ago

      being treated as an object of reverence to be kept and provided for rather than a person of equal contributions to be given the same status as everyone else, is itself a form of oppression. Consider that “revered and provided for” is also the status of a cat, and while we certainly love those, they arent exactly treated as anything like our equals.

      • Ogmios@sh.itjust.works
        421·
        11 days ago

        People constantly claim that women have been horribly objectified, while ignoring how men have always been treated by society, where they have no value what so ever other than as a wage slave.

        • Pennomi@lemmy.worldEnglish
          20·
          11 days ago

          Both those things can be true. One is caused by sexism, the other by classism. Neither negates the other, and implying so is incredibly dismissive.

          • Ogmios@sh.itjust.works
            312·
            11 days ago

            This very post itself is about how men have had literally no choices at all for formal wear, which certainly wasn’t a poor man’s arena.

            • Pennomi@lemmy.worldEnglish
              141·
              11 days ago

              The “limited fashion choices for a man to wear” was enforced by men, not women. It’s not the slam dunk argument you seem to think it is. (Especially considering during the same era women couldn’t own property or vote.) Men have had privilege for nearly all of recorded history.

              I know you’re just doubling down on your argument here, which is a normal human thing. You should really read up on the topic and see what experts say about sexism. There are lots of good citations in the Wikipedia article here: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexism

        • CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social
          4·
          11 days ago

          The poor have always been treated poorly. But if you look at the people that actually have most of the influence in society, they’ve generally been mostly men. Not exclusively, and less now than before, but you can hardly argue the distribution of power has been anything close to 50 50. Talking about this isn’t ignoring that poor men (and poor women for that matter) are and have been exploited for their labor- because that is simply a different conversation than the one on gender status. There can be more than one issue in play in society at a time, and it is not ignoring or denying the rest to talk about one of them without bringing up every single other one while doing it

        • xmunk@sh.itjust.works
          3·
          11 days ago

          Men have always had the freedom to choose what they want to be - for women it’s the fucking bird cage or nothing… now the bird cage is gilded and pretty, but it’s still a fucking bird cage.

          • Ogmios@sh.itjust.works
            23·
            11 days ago

            Men have always had the freedom to choose what they want to be

            You don’t understand anything about our history at all, do you? English surnames (Thatcher, Smith, Fletcher, etc…) are what they are because people literally had no other choice but to work the same profession for many generations.

    • Rimu@piefed.social
      19·
      11 days ago

      Most women could not open their own bank accounts or have credit cards until the 1970’s. That’s just about within the lifetimes of nearly half the people here.

    • Donebrach@lemmy.world
      1·
      11 days ago

      Wow look at Mr. Big Brain here with literally no ability to understand human history.

      We’re not living in a fucking shonen manga here you dumbass.

      • Ogmios@sh.itjust.works
        11·
        11 days ago

        Just because your culture may have a shit history for how they treated women doesn’t mean every other culture was the same.