• JoShmoe@ani.social
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    20 days ago

    Can you imagine the difficulty of keeping the inside of your butthole clean for your partner? I just don’t get how some people can maintain that. Kudos to those that make the effort.

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      20 days ago

      not to be too stereotypically reddit butt…

      a bidet makes it a lot easier 😅. it shoots a little water up in there like a mini douche every time. helps get those last little stubborn bits too if there are any.

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        20 days ago

        I need to invest in a butt shower. No space for a bidet, but those buttoned showeheads are perfect. Visiting Oman brought enlightenment.

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          19 days ago

          Dedicated bidets make no sense to me, and they’re usually the obnoxious european type where its a fucked up combination of sink and toilet.

          Japanese style smart-toilet bidets are the shit. You install it on your regular toilet, and when you’re done you press a button and your asshole is clean.

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          18 days ago

          mine just attached under my toilet seat. the water line connects to the existing toilet water line. it came with the fitting i needed and was easier than Legos to set up.

          think i payed like $25 on Amazon like 5 years ago. i try not to buy from Amazon anymore, but I’m sure there are many reasonable options out there elsewhere.

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      20 days ago

      Ex was cursed to be a hairy bottom.

      He did a ton a maintenance but it’s a butt, sometimes there will be shit.

      I had seen grosser things come out of vaginas. Sex is inherently gross (asexual bias lol)

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        19 days ago

        I mean, even as a sexual person, when you stop and think about it, it is indeed gross.

        But my reptilian brain craves it. And my logical brain just doesn’t give a fuck anymore about how it looks like. I mean, I change diapers full of shit and piss every day and I’ve seen my two children be born in an ungodly amount of juices. My threshold for being grossed out has become a lot higher.

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          18 days ago

          the horny brain will actively chemically supresses our “ick” reaction. we’re literally less capable of being grossed out when having sex.

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      20 days ago

      I don’t get the appeal honestly and I’m a bi guy. And I hate that every porn video devolves into anal by the way, can we get clearly labeled non small porn please?