• Deflated0ne@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    It’s almost like we spent millions of years evolving as social communal animals. Almost like we evolved …wait for it…

    Empathy. /gasp

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      We’re not very good at it. Lots of ways our empathy systems can be hacked.

      Take the Kuleshov effect where a broodily staring man is edited with a secondary image which completely changes most people’s reading of the internal feeling of the person.

      It’s not a perfect system.

  • TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    “I’m an empath” a.k.a. I’m so stupid that I think reading body language requires supernatural powers

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      Or you have bpd.

      Obviously not “you” as in the commenter I’m responding to

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        As far as I’ve been told, that’s an extension of their inability to regulate emotions. They aren’t more in tune with other’s emotions, but rather, their emotional responses to other’s emotions is stronger than the average person.

        People with bpd aren’t sensing other people’s emotions more, they are reacting to it more due to their dysregulation.

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    I sort of have this… but its not supernatural.

    It’s just my autistic quirk of adopting personality traits of people around me… I’ve heard it called Chameleoning

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    That sounds less like an empath and more like a cop. They know everything you’re thinking within 5 seconds