“I can fix her”?
She can break me.
Twice this year, it’s a him but yes. They make borderline in boys too.
Let him go. Folks all the way on bpd bullshit just leave you wrecked until you decide to stay away. Maybe he’ll get better, I’ve had respected friends and partners who did, but it ain’t worth waiting for and being broken over and over in the meantime
She’s probably going to need a good lay after that one.
As if she didn’t get laid in the psych ward.
There’s not generally a bounty of desirable dick in the psych ward, trust me
Some women do things together in their rooms between check-ins though.
Orderlies don’t count. It’s like being on vacation.
Maybe but she’ll need one after too.
I once dated a girl for a while but we stopped dating because she was just too BPD for me to handle. The passion & sex were great, but the mood swings, lies, paranoia, etc. were just too much.
We remained friends though for a very long time. Went our separate ways but were always in touch. Eventually she got into drugs & dating real bad dudes, and I tried to get her to get a grip and stop the drugs & ruining her life. She ghosted me. Eventually she responded (or rather her boyfriend did) that she was in a psych ward for rehab. Our friendship resumed when she got out.
A year later she died. I met her family at the funeral, befriended them. One day I mentioned her psych ward stay. Her mom said she was never in a psych ward. She pulled up texts on her phone from the date range when she allegedly was in the ward.
The whole thing was a sham. She told me she was in the psych ward / rehab to get me off her back. The txt from her bf was just her.
I miss my friend dearly, but finding that out broke my heart.
I’m sorry she couldn’t accept your help. You have to forgive yourself. Some people cannot be saved.
Working as a nurse in acute psychiatric care, I can tell you the comparative normality of non-psychiatric-patients is easily overestimated. No need to stigmatize those in need of little help now and then. We all do.
aww, you with in a cute psychiatric care
Girls with grippy socks give the best blowjobs.
Men love BPD chicks because we’ll be obsessed with them and could suck the paint off a trailer hitch but they act all shocked when they realize they need Steve Irwin level animal handling skill to not get their face chewed off and that they might just get speared to death anyway. My guy, do you want to live life on the edge or not?
Oh, yeah definitely. My first love had BDP and I’m still riding scars from those 5 years. Best head tho.
live on the edge? like edging? the sigma male grindset reference?!?!
living on the edge, a place you can easily fall to your death, but it is exhilarating to be there
Girls with grippy socks give the best
blowjobsfootjobs.
Lol, this literally happened to me once.
Long story short, a girl I knew but always figured was way out of my league expressed interest in me. We quickly started dating, I thought I was the luckiest guy in the world. A few weeks go by and she just ghosts me. Nothing for weeks, I was going nuts. Finally I get a message from her, she had checked herself into the psych ward, and wound up hooking up with one of the staff while she was there.
Dodged a real one there…
Hooking up with one of the staff? Yikes
I don’t deny that you may have dodged a bullet, but I feel like the staff of a psych ward hooking up with patients is hella fucked up. Even if both people are adults, I think consent in that context is pretty dubious.
wholeheartedly agree. I was but 19 years old though and less wise in the ways of the world. I occasionally try to look her up but have had no luck, I really hope she turned out ok. Been decades though.
From what I heard its super common for psych ward staff to be doing patients. And yeah it can’t be very helpful in their situation…
This is how you become the ghost.
Hey baby, can I interest you an a folie à deux? 😉
God that movie sucked ass.
I know, and it ruined a perfectly good psychoanalytical term, too.
I kind of want to watch it, but I’d have to watch the original Joker first.
Original is decent, but won’t live up to the hype. The second… just … don’t.
I got phone time when I was in the psychiatric hospital…
Yeah, I just had my phone the whole time. It turns out that completely cutting people off from their support network doesn’t promote mental wellbeing.
I didn’t :(
I’m sorry -_-
Hi, sorry -_- , I’m dad.
It’s Apsalar now
Don’t bother. She’s already perfect.
Started dating a girl with bpd and have never been so excited yet so confused, my life is fucked now i think but she’s super hot so whatever
She just called me to say she loves me then she called me an asshole and hung up
thanks for the update
Time to put a ring on it
If she’s 27 do u think it’s possible she outgrows this lol
Psych ward is always best enjoyed together. Good for You.
As someone currently being ghosted, improvement yeaaaaaaaaahhhhhh
Crazy?
I was crazy once.
They locked me in a room.
A rubber room!
A rubber room with rats!
Rats make me crazy!
Crazy?
I was crazy once.
Where are they going?
Well, breakfast is at 9.
Then maybe a group.
Then to the tables for lunch.
Hopefully atleast another group, or the rest of the days going to be crazy boring.