• ikt@aussie.zone
        211·
        1 month ago

        I don’t think that’ll happen but I try to drink a teaspoon of cement every day and just have to remember: there will be upvotes, there will be downvotes, at the end of the day, life will go on

        “Empty your mind. Be formless, shapeless, like water. You put water into a cup; it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle; it becomes the bottle. You put it into a teapot; it becomes the teapot. Now water can flow, or it can crash. Be water, my friend.” — Bruce Lee

      • idunnololz@lemmy.world
        8·
        1 month ago

        Oh no. I saw some people were quite vocal about how they didnt care for your posts but I think a lot of people liked them, they just didn’t say anything (me included).

      • Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.orgEnglish
        3·
        1 month ago

        What, really?
        Yeah youd did post soms horny stuff, from a womens perspective which was kinda entertaining and unique, but absolutely not deserving of bulling or any harassment.

        Hopefully it goes better this time around. Stay strong.

        • Banana@sh.itjust.works
          2·
          9 days ago

          There’s a certain type of person that assumes anytime a woman talks about being horny that she must not be real or be lying for attention.

          As a woman, I truly think women can absolutely be hornier than men, our “high libido” time is just monthly for like a week rather than daily for a couple hours. I get absolutely fucking feral. The whole “she must be doing it for attention/must be fake” is just patriarchal shit. I believe violet is real because I was 100% like this at 18 lol. I still am, I’m just monogamous now and more private about my shit.

          • Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.orgEnglish
            2·
            9 days ago

            Coming back to this comment and i noticed how many typos it had. I apologize for that.

            Yeah I’m fully aware that women can be a lot hornier than some men, I’ve been in a long term relationship with one who’s significantly hornier than i am.

            It was just shocking that she got bullied off of lemmy for it, though at least this time around shes still here. So she found a way to deal with the bullies or they’re not getting under her skin that much.

            • Banana@sh.itjust.works
              2·
              9 days ago

              Oh totally! I didn’t mean you were the type of person to not believe it, just that I’ve seen a lot of guys make that comment about her

      • LH0ezVT@sh.itjust.works
        2·
        1 month ago

        Please continue the hornyposting. I don’t care why you do it, but it’s funny, and that’s all I care about.

  • Gonzako@lemmy.world
    13·
    1 month ago

    I’ll be honest, i’m curious if you’re still getting railed by the vietnamese duo you liked so much

    • did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOP
      22·
      1 month ago

      hahaha, no. the trip ended and we parted ways. and they weren’t Vietnamese, lol. I actually didn’t even fuck any locals while I was traveling, the bodyguard duo kept me dicked down well enough.

      I do have a new man now, though, and let’s just say I’m currently living my daddy fantasy. not gonna expand on it for now because I know people on here are gonna flame me for it, lmao.🫣

      • Gonzako@lemmy.world
        5·
        1 month ago

        Already can see the AO3 tags [Daddy issues] [Age diference] [Power Imbalance]. I’m really astounded how you move from one to the next so fast. Where i’m from there’s not much flexibility in couples. You either make it work with the couple people that’s compatible with you on town or you just have to change town if you wanna meet anyone.

        • did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOP
          10·
          1 month ago

          finding men is easy. I could have a new one every day without putting in any effort if I wanted to. besides, I’m not looking for anything serious right now, I’ve just been having fun and enjoying a few flings since my breakup.

      • over_clox@lemmy.world
        3·
        1 month ago

        Oof, I’m already subscribed there too, but their last post was from 6 months ago… They need some more activity over there, I just don’t have any bananas for photos right now ☹️

        I do think it’s kinda neat that bananaforscale.info fairly recently added the weight category, it used to be only length conversion.

      • GhostFace@lemmy.today
        31·
        1 month ago

        I don’t think they were outright banned but they had a lot of mod actions on them the last time they were on here from dragging their dramas out into various communities.

        At this point they should probably just be banned on sight for ban evasion but I get the feeling that this place is so starved for activity(especially perceived activity from a woman who will agree with whatever most of the men on here say although I think she’s just a bad actor) that it’ll just be ignored.