• HurricaneLiz@lemmy.world
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              We just gotta keep whispering “You’re worthy of love because you are love” over and over until they internalize it.

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            I appreciate your candour about how you feel about yourself, because I am also someone who struggles with self hatred and craves affirmation, so seeing comments like yours gives me a nice sense of solidarity.

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        Compliments make me uncomfortable because I only really recieved them when I was quite young, so I have a habit of associating compliments with being a child. So compliments make me feel infantilized.

        I also struggle with self-worth, so I also often times feel like I am undeserving of compliments. This causes me to not trust compliments as being genuine. I have a bad habit of assuming compliments are backhanded or are manipulative, or just overall just not genuine.

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          What the hell, this is exactly how I feel. I don’t have a partner though so I don’t know how I’d behave in this case. I hope that, if I ever find someone, I can at least trust them enough to not question the sincerity of their compliments.

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    Imagine how great it would be if you had a dom who could think of your best interests and nag you to do the right thing oh wait we just reinvented parents with extra steps.

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    You know, gym equipment is similar to dungeon furniture with enough imagination… (unironically i have a weird thing for training people. not a fetish, just a thing.)

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      I’ve always had a Thing for admiring ppls’ hand shapes from an artistic pov, isn’t a fetish, it’s cool when we find stuff we like

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      I’ve been a bad, bad little boy. I haven’t achieved any of the goals on my five-year plan. My gym membership has lapsed and I don’t think I’ve done any laundry in over three weeks.

      What are you going to do about it? French maid’s outfit? Very kinky. And… degreaser? A sponge? Okay, what are we planning here? These are not the sexiest rubber gloves. Why are you pointing me towards the oven like that?