• zaphod@sopuli.xyz
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      27 days ago

      Don’t sort by active, only use custom feed, block communities which only contain “anger inducing” content, block people who post “anger inducing” content.

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        That’s all fine and dandy until your block list is a mile long and you only get a handful of posts a day anymore because that’s what you’re left with when you filter out the furries, anime porn, ragebait, OMG LINUX, thigh high socks, etc. The OP is right, Lemmy has just as much of a content problem as any other place and the blame is largely on the users.

        At least on Reddit, despite its massive flaws, I get actual discussion that’s more than a sentence or two of “I agree bad guy is bad!” The amount of low effort engagement in here is atrocious.

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          you only get a handful of posts a day anymore

          And that’s bad why exactly?

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            Well, I try to come here to keep up to date with what’s going on with the world and my experience is generally this is the second or third place that news “breaks”. By the time it hits Lemmy, it’s basically outdated.

            So seeing a handful of posts that are out of date with barely any actual discussion going on is pretty useless. I find myself checking Lemmy once or twice a day, seeing there’s nothing worth being here for, and leaving. That’s not how you grow a community.

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    28 days ago

    Alex Blechman (@AlexBlechman) tweeted:

    Sci-Fi Author: In my book I invented the Torment Nexus as a cautionary tale.

    Tech Company: At long last, we have created the Torment Nexus from classic sci-fi novel Don’t Create The Torment Nexus.

    8 Nov 2021, 2:49 PM

    For today’s lucky 10,000.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Torment_Nexus

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      i never expected that there was a wikipedia page about this concept that just explains it in such a dry way

      this feels like knowyourmeme but less … sarcastic? idk. it feels weird

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    We need both.

    Technology is awesome and I have a tech job and a house full of computers and all that. But it’s important that we don’t fall into the trap of “if we just got rid of the capitalists, then we could be on our screens all day in peace and health.”

    If you cooperate with the primitive parts of your brain that evolved to take cues from the natural world, it can often improve things across the board.

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    28 days ago

    Ah yes, because no-one got unhealthily addicted to IRC or BBS or SMS or whatever. Digital detox is more about taking time to be purposefully disconnected from current affairs and people you might be better off not interacting with.

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        27 days ago

        Although not the careers MUDs’ creators - I dated the daughter of one of them once upon a time, and his academic career was founded on his contribution to the creation of MUD!

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      people can, but they weren’t built for the purpose of engagement bait like stuff is now. texting is sending words from one device to another without moderation or an algorithim, so you only see what people are saying

      on most socials it pushes engagement bait and whatnot, and they’re both solutions and they can be solutions to the same problem or to slightly different problems that look the same. it is the fault of both the customer and the company.

      not sure if its sarcasm, but anyway

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    Mfs will post this then get into a 3 hour debate on mastodon about the ethics of projecting yaio shipping culture on a race swapped hetero pair of platonic friends from an anime with 12 episodes.

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    No, there are PLENTY of people who need to touch grass and go hang out in a social setting from time to time.

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    I agree, it’s a tragedy that the internet and the majority of digital spaces have been captured and wrecked by monied interests.

    I would argue that we all probably could do with “detoxing” from digital spaces, as well. Plenty of people seem to be way too into the internet.

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    Here’s an idea: email your friends more often. It’s not a silver bullet but seriously, it’s so much more pleasant to fire up Thunderbird than it is to deal with the FOMO of keeping up with Discord servers and group chats and Facebook and Insta and Snapchat and

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      … and risk accidentally sending a wrong attachment file that i should not have sent? and i can’t delete images after i’ve sent them? no thanks.

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        If that is a significant concern for you then no, you probably shouldn’t use email. The other platforms are lying to you when they say that they can delete your photos off other people’s computers though. Most of them are probably lying when they claim to delete files off their own servers.

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    I dunno dude. Sometimes building a home or on the woods, way out where no one could hear me play my instruments and get mad because I suck, that sounds kinda nice.

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    Do you accept all cookies?

    For decades websites didn’t need this ridiculous disclaimer and then all the sudden it’s become absolute necessity.

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      Because they put them on your device silently, and then the EU stopped them from doing that?

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        So you are fine with being tracked as long as they are transparent about it? In practice, you still have to accept cookies to browse the site, or you are kicked off entirely.

        Absolutely nothing changed regarding tracking.

        The spirit of the EU law was to allow users to decline cookies and still use the site. That outcome is meaningless to advertisers, who require tracking to function.

        The EU law did not protect users. It simply made the internet worse

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          So you are fine with being tracked as long as they are transparent about it?

          No, I’m saying for most of the time before that popup existed, the cookies were already there, you just didn’t know about them.