• toynbee@lemmy.world
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    20 days ago

    When my mom’s best friend started to develop … I’m not sure, but some kind of age related disorder that caused her to forget words … She would just use “tree” in place of the word she couldn’t remember.

    She expressed this to her friend group and they all just extrapolated the actual word intended and went with it.

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    20 days ago

    Just insert a random word from a language your conversational partner doesn’t speak.

    As an Estonian, I offer the following interesting sounding options: türa, jäääär, ajukääbik, kaksteist kuud, sõlmenditolgend

    • mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca
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      20 days ago

      you have missed the point. you don’t need to know any other languages to use this approach.

      • A_Chilean_Cyborg@feddit.cl
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        20 days ago

        what??

        how would that work???, living alone in the jungle until adulthood and only then learning?

        or is a shit americans say kind of thing?

        • kazerniel@lemmy.world
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          20 days ago

          not sure what OP meant, but it reminded me of the forced assimilation of peoples in a colonial setting, where a potential scenario is that

          • the grandparents speak their native language fluently, and the dominating language almost not at all
          • the parents speak both the native and the dominating language, but badly
          • the kids speak the dominating language fluently, and the native language almost not at all

          So in that case the parents can be seen as not having a proper native language, because they have two languages they can sorta make work, but can’t fully express nuance and complex thought in either.

          • A_Chilean_Cyborg@feddit.cl
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            20 days ago

            Then said language is not their native language.

            The nativa language is the first one you learnt as a kid, the one your parents taught you.

            So it is a “Shit americans say” after all.