do you think I went to his place at 3am to discuss the economical and political state of the world?
If it was my place then the answer would at least partially be yes.Me too, we’re lame
the econ department i went to had the best fundraising t-shirts:
[blank] department of economics
we don’t wonder why we don’t get invited to parties
we know
Lol that emoji embedded perfectly.
I’m getting to the point my tastes are… inverting. Younger men looking better and better these days since older men for me is now actually old men lol
I actually thought about this. I don’t think when I’m 50 I’ll be into older men anymore, since what I consider “older men” now would either be around my age or just old-old men, lmao.
No matter how old you get, 20 year olds stay the same age.
As someone who has aged, I gotta disagree.
In high school, 20 year olds were ancient and wise.
In college, 20 year olds became peers and competitors
Once I started working, 20 year olds were the newbies
Now 20 year olds are indistinguishable from babies. Just having a conversation that ends with “After this we’re going to the bar, you want to come?” and getting told “Uh… I’m not quite old enough to drink” blows my mind every time I hear it.
”After this we’re going to the bar, you want to come?" and getting told “Uh… I’m not quite old enough to drink” blows my mind every time I hear it.
Wait till you reach the point where it reverses and the 20-30 year olds are the ones asking and you have to decline.
Oh sure. That’s just called “having kids” and I’m firmly in that stage.
Brian! Get away from the bowling alley
Alright alright alright
Unless you digivolve into a grandaddy fantasy
I think the technical term is grave robbing, as opposed to cradle robbing.
Isn’t that only if you marry them for their money?
Not necessarily. I knew an extremely attractive young woman in her 20s who nicknamed herself the “crypt-creeper”, because well… that what she liked.
No reason to marsh others mellow.
Some yums can be pretty yuck though.
Then don’t eat it.
Can confirm
Huh. I have always liked guys my age, whatever that age is, and always for some reason have been pursued only by guys my age or younger (defining “my age” as a few years in either direction). Will need to see if that holds, but I didn’t expect it to still be true at this age so maybe.
Looks wise yeah I think more younger guys look better but OMG when I see a fit guy my age, that strikes me much more.
I’m getting to the point my tastes are… inverting.
If it was just about a cute body, people would just get Realdolls with warming coils. Some people are satisfied by that, sure, but not many.
What most of us like is a body animated by a vivacious and interesting intelligence of some kind.
And here’s the fun part: the more interesting the spooky animating ghost intelligence, the less cute the body needs to be.
My partner’s butt is, shape wise, probably pretty similar to many others. But when I squeeze it in a certain way, and it moves lithely in my hands like a big old disco cat… It’s genuinely the best butt in my universe.
If you think any kind of sex doll is in the same universe as even the dumbest most uninteresting person, you do not fuck.
wasn’t that his exact point lol
Even if it’s strictly sex, sex with a real human being is leagues different than sex with 40 lbs of heated silicone
But when I squeeze it in a certain way, and it moves lithely in my hands like a big old disco cat…
sentences i never even imagined
Well hello there. 😄
“He’s using you for your body.”
And I’m using him for his.
god forbid people gasp enjoy sex
OP is only recently 18. Sexual partner is over 50. It’s not 100% sunshine and roses.
that’s two consenting adults enjoying each others’ company. the sunshine and roses level isn’t really anyone’s business but theirs
Gives me the ick. Serious Trump vibes.
The whole “daddy, please tell the bodyguards to bonk me, they’re refusing because they think you’ll sack them!” thing and the “daddy please can I bonk one of your middle aged chums?” stuff is all more than weird to me.
She comes across as happy and knowing exactly what she wants, so that’s a positive, but I think her dad has a very weak ‘no’ game and has had for years and years. Not everything that we want at 18 is good for us. Only a handful of months ago she was a literal child.
the thing is you gotta draw the adulthood line somewhere and just let young adults have sexual autonomy
OP may or may not be having a healthy relationship that they may or may not regret later but they’re well within their right to point out that that’s nobody’s business but their own and they shouldn’t be getting unsolicited judgment for it
My opinion is that posting anything publicly enough that I hear about it is at the very least a de facto invitation for my opinion on it. That would be different if it were e.g. paparazzi reporting on the potentially private affairs of the wealthy and famous.
Gives me the ick.
That’s your ick, not theirs.
At some point you need to acknowledge that every detail of their relationship you’re imagining, you’ve invented from zero other information in order to gross yourself out.
I’m not imagining any details at all, and the quotes I have are paraphrased from violet’s previous posts, possibly from her old username.
I mean if I’m still awake at 3am I’m gonna be down for either.
Yeah, I get all that. But, did you ever install a Linux ISO at 3am with a friend (or more)?! That’s better than sex!
Especially after chasing down that display driver issue in the wee hours of the morning. Light that cigarette
wb violet we missed you
Why not both?
seriously if i can’t discuss geopolitical economics with a lover, why am i loving them?
well it’s nice to know every time i have a good idea for a short everyone’s already done it and done it better, so just stay out of the film industry i’m better as a cameraman than a director :3
Never fear, everything’s been done in one form or another. Just got to give it your own little spin and it’s all good!
No i mean like that was the scene i had in mind and everything, i just am not good with the communist lingo. it cracks me up
Would you like to?
Or maybe we can talk about Battletech and great naval battles throughout history? Maybe trains?
Hey, nice to see you back on Lemmy!
I would go to his house at 3am and make him discuss the economical and political state of the world.
If you came to my house at 3 am, the only discussion you’d be getting is: “Zzzzzzzzzzzzz.”
Midnight or 6am and that is a different story.
I just enjoy some good mouth on me
When he is done and starts playing video games at 3 am, you gonna be good with it?
I mean, we’re gonna end up on economics and politics when we’re cuddling afterward.
