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      “No one’s in any danger! How could I make that any more clear to you? Okay. It’s an implication of danger.”

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    The other day we were playing a video game and my 5 year old shouted “DO AN AILERON ROLL!!”

    We must be doing something right.

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    You should never propose if you are not 100% sure the answer is yes. You talk about it before. The only thing that should be a surprise is where and how you propose.

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    I don’t understand public proposals intentionally done before a crowd. Proposals at other people’s weddings are downright bizarre.

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      Because marriages and weddings are to show the community you’re together. That’s the whole point. Some people are a bit more extrovert about it than others, as in all things.

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        Yeah but community pressure shouldn’t factor into the equation when making the decison

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          Chances are, they’ve talked about it beforehand and it’s only a matter of making the decision public…

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      They are only bizare if they didn’t get permission from the couple that’s having their wedding.

      Otherwise they can be a nice suprise for the wedding.

      As for public one’s in general they are 100% bizarre.

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        I think this only makes sense if the engaging couple are like super close with the wedding pair. And even then it depends a lot on the personalities of the couple getting married

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                I think it depends on the presentation and timing,

                If you ask for permissions and the ceouple agrees, the couple can mention that is another important annoncment happenning and they let the ither couple do their thing, can end up being a nice memory if done correctly and they don’t really upstage it if done correctly, only add to the happines of the event.

                But if done abruptly and without permission then yes, i agree it’s just upstaging and destroying thr wedding of someone else.

                Note: here it’s normal for couples to propose on someone’s wedding if they got permission and the couple having the wedding announces something happenning. Ends uo being a nice memorh where the two couples come together and celebrate getting married and proposed to.

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                  I agree with this. A wedding exists to celebrate love and happiness. I could never be upset at someone bringing additional love and happiness to my celebration of love and happiness. People who are have missed the point of a wedding, I think.

                  If they’re an asshole about it and completely take over the wedding with it, sure. But that doesn’t really happen. Your wedding has an invite list, everyone you invited came here to see your wedding, presumably they aren’t all itching to go see this other extra proposal/wedding that cropped up out of nowhere.

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    Gordon Lightfoot plays softly in the background

    🎶This old airport’s got me down. It’s no earthly good to me. And I’m stuck here on the ground, as cold and drunk as I can be🎶

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    Really makes you think, was this what happened with MH370? Was this theory ever put out there

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      Because if the girl said ‘no’, then the answer is obviously ‘no’. But the thing is she is not gonna say no. She would never say ‘no’, because of the implication.